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7 Tips to Save Yourself from Porn Addiction

Did you know that being porn addiction results from misused of technology?

Among those things invented by man is‘technology’. Technology is the best thing that has ever happened in the history of human and this has led to many development including the way we communicates, explore the outside world and helps us crush tedious tasks easily with different machines.

But, technology has also led to some negative development which includes invention of bomb, assorted weapons, cyber scamming and lots more. If you are a teenager or you have been watching different movies, then you would have realized that the same technology also grace Pornography.

Pornography in its simplest meaning is when someone is involving in an act that secretly stimulates sexual pleasure. Some people are suffering from porn addiction and it seems there is no way out for them because they have totally give themselves to it.

In the olden days before technology, pornography is not as trending as it is during this generation. Nowadays, a lot of things can stimulates or trigger arrant sexual pleasure such as:

  • Using the internet
  • Half-naked ladies used for advertising
  • Some music videos can’t trend without showing nudes or female body’s figure
  • And so on.

Many people involved in this act think it’s a normal way of life and most young lads think porn addiction activities like Masturbation is a must for every kids attaining to reach puberty level but this is absolutely not right!

Porn Addiction or engaging in something that stimulates pornography is an eyesore either you are involving in it through erotic novels, watching it on porn site, viewing related pics or any other trigger, it’s a very bad habit which can even turn you into a complete pervert!

Pornography will make you think all opposite gender are nothing but ‘sex objects’ and makes you feel lonely, discouraged, sad and lack discipline in anywhere you found yourself.

It will totally ruin your life and render your relationship with your wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend useless because you know of a way to satisfy yourself sexually even if your partner is not around. Bad habit indeed.

But don’t worry as I got 7 working tips which can help you out of this porn addiction. Let go;

How to Save Yourself from Porn Addiction

  1. Thorough Examination: if you have been addicted to pornography lately and it’s seems quite tedious for you to quit, the first thing you need to do in saving yourself is examining yourself.

Know your trigger and battle it. This is very important as it will determine which area you will need to adjust or avoid. What are your triggers? The following are few of them:

  1. Hidden and lonely places
  2. Internet-enabled devices such as smartphones, laptop or iPad
  3. Watching things like mannequins, sex objects
  4. Crazy and seductive dressing by opposite sex
  5. Dirty talks involving sex or anything related
  6. Flirting or rough play with opposite gender
  7. And any other things.
  8. Think about the consequences: watching pornography or being porn addicted is a great disease that no medicine can cure except you work on yourself because it’s a self-problem needing self-determination to solve.

Think about the effect of porn addiction which includes loss of appetite to real sex, pen/s dysfunction, metabolic problems which may involves bad effect on Wombs and females can disvirgin themselves as a result of porn addiction through pornography which is a bad consequence to your marriage in the future.

Thinking about what may happen to you in the nearest future may help you determine in quitting this nonsense.

  • Avoid the Triggers: Yes, you have examined yourself and have discovered what pushes you to watch porn or masturbates. This is the first crucial thing I mentioned if you really want to save yourself from porn addiction.

Having aware of the consequences, the next thing is to start working earnestly in avoiding the triggers no matter the condition. Avoid things like ‘erotic or erotica stories’, ‘flirting’, ‘rough play’ etc.

  • Don’t Stay Alone in a Room: This a very important thing to consider if you really want to quit pornography. Staying in a room alone in a viral causative trigger because no one is there to disturb you or spy on your hidden disgrace.

You will think you are free to do anything you like and this is where the idea of pleasing yourself sexually comes. Instead of staying alone, stay outdoor whenever you think you may be triggered to involve in watching porn or masturbating.

  • Get a hobby: A popular saying expatiated that most hidden hands are used in an unjust ways. It’s true and that is what happen to most people addicted to pornography.

You can get a hobby such as footballing, fishing, hurting, swimming, writing, drawing and many other hobbies you may think of.

This will really help you in avoiding the call of the triggers because you will be busy with something that won’t allow your mind to think of such bad act.

  • Get a Lover: Most usually feels like having sex with an imaginary lover and that’s why it’s easy for them to enjoy short-minutes sexual pleasure through ‘masturbation’.

I will strongly advise you to get a girlfriend or boyfriend who is ready to satisfy you sexually and if you think you are ready for marriage, quickly go for it and start enjoying life-time sex which is legal and biblical.

  • Seek Help: Pornography or porn addiction is no longer a new thing and whoever you try to seek help from, won’t disgrace you because they understand it’s a very common infectious disease.

Some people may be making jest of you if they heard or catch you in this ugly act and this is why you should quit before they do. Few and trusted people like your parents, brothers or sisters can help you fight and conquer the triggers together.

Some real religious leaders like pastors and medical practitioners like Doctors can help you with the perfect tips.

Don’t think you can solve this alone (if you know that you are really addicted). Seeking help will clear your conscience, let those people guide and protects always from porn addiction.

CONCLUSION

I just aligned 7 tips that can help you fight and conquer porn addiction. The next thing is left to you which is simply your determination to quit!

Do you have any question pertaining to this content or you think I can help you deal with anything affecting your relationship? Kindly let me know using the comment box below and I will provides you with good and reliable answer(s) to help you.

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